This Paradigm, often mis-interpreted isn't at all what it appears. Society has shifted this Paradigm into a blame catch all and have lost focus of our true reality... "Fatherless Children". Many men have lost there way through ignorance, some through bad choices, some just being smart alecs in a feeble attempt at misguided attention and others, simply... ill equipped. The fact of the matter people, in my years of experience and as an expert in this field, is this... we as a people need to relax. Relax our assumptions that because we don't see DaD and MoM together, that... Relax our judgments while looking in from the... Relax our position of... Relax that index finger for a little while from... Relax our tongue of persecution, saying... Relax our lack of patience... Relax the in-law syndrome... just Relax! Much of the exacerbation is directly collated with outside influence and instigation. I'm sorry but it's the truth. In order for us to shift this paradigm and experience the preponderant desire we must join forces and lift out of the dust a culture of MEN which morphs Great DaDs.
Listen... the Paradigm though very convincing isn't motivation, or the lack there of. It is something we are very familiar with. It is, "KNOWLEDGE". You see, unless a person has an understanding... getting wisdom means nothing. The bible makes it clear in its explanation of one's desire for wisdom. It says in all your getting... get an understanding. The fact is and always have been the lack of understanding that stems back to the beginning. Man and Woman do not understand one another or how to effectively communicate each value. Through mis-understanding, anger seeps in and while angry, very painful choices are made and as a result, very selfish decisions are executed on both parts, when all that was needed were some tools to effectively communicate very important directives, core values, guidelines and expectations. With those basic principles one can move towards a place of self examination and become primed for "USE" in the family. This is what HesDaD has perfected in our DaDcademy. With unique and effective tools we are able to tap into the intrinsic nature of the "MAN" and pull out of him... that dormant Great DaD, who has been there all along.
While we [mankind] unite in a common effort around the world to Restore and Preserve the Family through this vital cause we have affectionately coined... "The Year Of The DaD" there will be a surge of businesses, churches and community based organizations rallying in support of this great movement with resources necessary to effectively change a generational plague which has infected so many families and denigrated whole communities. "The Year Of The DaD" is a movement crossing all ethnic, religious, gender, political, economical and social boundaries. Everyone gets involved in this movement of "Change". It's TIME! It's TIME we as a people band together and encourage "MEN" to stand up... To hold "MEN" accountable to their commitment... to become BETTER humans in our own rights and to Empower a new generation of children to become responsible and loving members of society with focus on and purpose to FAMILY while executing a relentless resolve of constant personal improvement.